vikki spencer
AUTHOR - SPEAKER - REALIST - TEACHER
THE LOFT CIRCLE
Helping women face fear, listen to their intuition, and learn to deeply connect with themselves and others within weeks to create a life they love without feeling shame, guilt, or overwhelm.
YOU SEE OTHER POST ABOUT THEIR AMAZING LIFE, BUT YOU FEEL GUILTY FOR BEING JEALOUS, OR ASHAMED THAT YOU CAN'T MAKE IT HAPPEN FOR YOURSELF.
You’ve prayed and read books but your life doesn’t always seem to line up - or you get no lasting path of change. You want your intuition back.
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Maybe you want to stop playing small, accepting whatever leftovers there are of other’s time, money or attention.
Be the change you wish to see in the world… but you’re tired, exhausted, and honestly wondering, ‘What about me?’.
Does this sound familiar?
I see so many women suffering because of 3 reasons…
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Their self-worth has taken a hit, can’t find their intuition, and feel overwhelmed about what to even try first since nothing has led to lasting change.
I WANT TO OFFER YOU THE OF A DIFFERENT WAY OF LIFE.
A life that’s not perfect, but perfect for you…shamelessly identifying what you really want in any situation, no guilt effective communication or conflict, self-care factored in.
Frustration has a skeleton key so you understand how to sail through it with others, and above all-purpose with ease and grace.
Imagine being able to wake up and go to bed knowing you’re where you belong, safe, loved, and on target.
It’s absolutely possible.
INTRODUCING THE LOFT CIRCLE
Where women are offered tools and strategies to understand the dynamics to shift their life in 60 days or less, with the group and personalized support as they focus on transformation.
WHAT MAKES THIS DIFFERENT?
I see it time and time again in online courses and memberships where people will not get to the pathways the nervous system is using to protect and guard any forward movement. So well-intended people buy into a solo DIY or a Facebook group of 500 and can’t be heard.
The Loft had to be different, accepting, and a safe space where women could say “I’ve been working on this, and here’s what I’m doing in real life, real-time, and here’s where I’m stuck.” No jealousy, no competition, just personal best showing up and finding their way forward. In fact, women standing in honor of other women is one of several missing factors in transformation.
As a trauma-informed coach, I also structure every lesson with an awareness of deeper issues we often overlook. This way, the shifts experienced are foundational, trust-worthy, and don’t require high maintenance pumping ourselves up to push through another day.
As a certified Breath Coach, we learn how to work with the nervous system so we learn or gather in a state of receptivity instead of force. Everything we do centers around ease, grace, and flow.
With my own faith background, I understand that we are not alone as we take on the sacred work of personal growth. Although subtle, the reliance on God/ Universe/ Higher Power is critical.
My Master’s degree in Education gets polished off with two 90 minute Zoom calls each month. We’ll have a focus topic, and a community time for questions, support, and sharing.
The end result is a deep love for who we are, and a vision with steps toward our potential within weeks, not months.
INSIDE THE PROGRAM YOU WILL
Learn - each month, you’ll learn through videos and concepts and strategies from psychology, brain science, and vetted with personal experience. Topics like resilience, interpersonal dynamics, conflict, boundaries, self-care, are all waiting for you to explore and apply. Topic of the month for January is Resilience.
Share - Bi-weekly Zoom calls to invite you to ask questions, let us know where you are winning and where the lessons are. This is where a boost of support happens so we’re not alone.
Shift - Through intentional focus, shifts happen. Within days or weeks, the conflict, communication, guilt, that felt never-ending, now begins to fade.
Heal - Through an understanding and identification of personal history, stories, and superpowers, a process of healing begins and old habits and patterns are no longer on default.
Thrive - Understanding how we function, our blind spots, and our options, allows us to be incredibly powerful in our lives and we experience thriving. This is where many women continue the journey to tackle new situations that arise or find our time together has served it’s purpose and we are no longer needed.
WHAT WOMEN HAVE SAID
"Working with you made it seem like everything we do is parents isn't wrong and that there is hope. You helped me see the larger picture of parenting and how to use the small actions or "problems" as growing points in making the larger picture. You also taught me how one small "problem" that is easy to fix could be contributing to something larger. You showed me how to really learn my child and how to take what they like and know to help her grow and prosper now and in the future. After this experience, I have been able to grow not only as a parent but also as a person. You have completely changed my way of thinking as a whole and it has been very successful.” - Brittani, NC
HI, I'M VIKKI SPENCER
Nutella lover, Myers- Briggs obsessed, fear alchemist, online teacher, and personal growth adventurer.
With certifications in trauma-informed approaches and breathwork, I combine my experience of great loss and rebuilding a life with emerging sciences of brain, psychology, and leadership to help women truly listen to their own life, create gentle shifts, and understand their own patterns and possibilities.
IT'S TIME TO STOP PLAYING SMALL
It’s time to stop playing small, being afraid of showing up to your own life, and supporting everyone else to get to their goals while yours stay on the backburner.
The ways of abandoning yourself as everyone else moves on, and feeling like you’re asking too much for a life you love, can end today.
The fear, anxiety, or wondering if you’re enough, too much, or just off base for even hoping there’s more for you can start to dissipate.
The “one day” you’ve been waiting for is today. You are worth this time to learn, consider, ask, be seen, supported, and transform.
If you’ll take one step to join us, you may watch life take a hundred steps toward you.
I truly believe we all have a place in this world to help alleviate suffering, but it starts with our own hearts and lives and ripples out from there. No one can take your place.
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This is your invitation to face fear, alchemize pain, and begin your own personalized path of compassionate transformation.